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Sexperts: The End

It started four years ago on a hot, muggy Florida morning. I didn’t know it at the time, but the words he said would shape me throughout my entire college experience: The charming tour guide stopped our group of eager [...]

April 26, 2015 Columns, Opinion, Sexperts

BDSM relationships make sex a vacation

BDSM: Bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism. A fun little way to remember it is with Rihanna’s song “S&M”: “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but chains and whips excite me.” Alternatively, film buffs might remember mathematician Alan Turing’s words: [...]

April 8, 2015 Arts & Entertainment, Media, Opinion, Sexperts

American sexual taboo leads to extremes

You are a prude. Do not try to refute it. I do not care if you are a porn star and have sex for a living. Prude. So am I, for the record. We are the product of our surroundings, [...]

February 26, 2015 Opinion, Sexperts

Defending High School Sweethearts

“If you’ve never dated anyone else, how do you know if they’re even ‘the one?’” “Aren’t you afraid you’ll get sick and tired of each other?” “Do you honestly think your relationship will last?” Hooray! for the endless amount of [...]

February 12, 2015 Opinion, Sexperts

The Sexperts: Sext Appeal

If you are a human being and you own a cell phone (which I am guessing you are because a) you are reading this right now and b) you are probably not Amish), then chances are you have stumbled upon [...]

January 29, 2015 Opinion, Sexperts

Sexperts: Walking the wire

During a short-lived single period my freshman year, I committed the cardinal sin of friendship—I tried to sleep with one of my best friends. Ray and I knew each other for over two years, and from the second we met, [...]

November 18, 2014 Columns, Opinion, Sexperts

Sexperts: Navigating the sexist politics of GamerGate

 A guy with a headset on, a controller in his hand, swears loudly for more than one reason. On screen, guns fire and sexualized women’s bodies gush blood. Between his legs, a woman’s head bobs up and down, while he [...]

November 12, 2014 Opinion, Sexperts

Sexperts: big things come in small packages

Admit it. We’re all aware. Society frowns upon relationships that consist of a tall woman and a shorter man. If I’m honest, I used to be one of the many stereotypical girls with the strong belief that women should always [...]

October 29, 2014 Columns, Opinion, Sexperts

Quest for the overhyped virginity

So, I was riding this massive penis in Minneapolis this past summer. I am not kidding, this thing was huge. And before you start rolling your eyes at my vulgarity (I mean this is a sex column, have a bit [...]

October 8, 2014 Columns, Opinion, Sexperts

Slut shaming outdated, overrated

Call me a slut. That’s right.  Say it to my face, say it behind my back, say it about how many partners I choose, say it about how short my shorts are. I hear this word bandied about Rollins College [...]

September 23, 2014 Opinion, Sexperts