The Sandspur

Issue date: 4/21/06 Section: Life & Times

Dear Fox,

Why do girls hide their emotions from the guys that they care about, but can share it with all the guys they don't?

Sincerely,

Mr. Friend Zone

Dear Friend Zone,

Guys, have you ever had a friend that you want to hook up with but she has a boyfriend? We have all been there.

Then the day that she breaks up with that loser finally comes. You could not be more excited. So you step in to be that shoulder to cry on. If you really want to be with this girl, this is a bad mistake. One thing that I have learned is that girls will not share their emotions with the guy that they want to be with.

If she is spilling everything to you, chances are that she only wants to be your friend. If she really wanted to be with you she would be afraid to let you into her world.

She knows that if she shares these emotions with you that you have something over her now. A girl will in no way let someone that can hurt her have this advantage.

If she does share these emotions then she knows that she has no interest in you. Letting you in to her world does not put her in a vulnerable position. If she is not feel a romantic attachment then you can't hurt her.

Keep this in mind whenever you get close to a girl. Everything that she does is a sign. The key to getting her to be yours is to read these signs and know what to do with them. Who she chooses to let into her emotional chaos is one of them. If you are one of those that she invites in and you have hope of being with her, this is the sign to run.

You let her cry on your shoulder and you are trapped. Not only are you in the friend zone, but you are in the girlfriend zone. This is by far the worst place that you can ever be. Make your move or get out of the way.

Lovingly Yours,

The Fox

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